….despite the recent trend of articles here.
I’m just trying to I guess not only vent/ and release some of the mess in my head, but I guess to let other people know you can still love your kids, love your life, and NOT love yourself.
Is that right? Nope. Is it healthy? Nope. But it is the way mental illness breaks you down.
I guess it is nice to hear that not every SAHM(Stay at home mom) is perfect. Perfect house, perfect kids, perfect cooking, perfect sex life, perfect perfect perfect.
I think the opposite is true. That many of us (working or not, mothers and fathers) sometimes feel like they are held together by the thinnest of threads.
I think more parents/people need to realize that there is no one real definition of “perfection” Perfection is what is perfect for YOU and YOURS. Like time it is relative.